Joshua Radin calms my soul. When I have a bunch of things going on at once and thoughts tumbling around my head, I can always count on his music to slow the world down and give me a chance to breathe.
Today has been one of those days. I woke up feeling fine. I actually got to sleep in half an hour later than usual. I got full credit for my story in ASL even. But I have not been able to shake feeling unworthy and insecure today. We all have those days. I really just want to crawl in my bed and not be disturbed by anyone. I want to write for hours and forget about the final I have to study for. I just want everything that worries me, annoys me, frustrates me to go away. I'm tired of overthinking everything and wondering what if? I wish I could just tell my brain to shut off and let everything go. Unfortunately, it's not that easy.
For the last couple weeks (well actually, if I'm being honest, years), I've been holding grudges. I never really noticed I was a grudge holder, but recently, I haven't been able to let go of people's trangressions against me. Part of me wonders if it's my fault that they did the wrongdoing. It's one of those things that I let happen and just forgive all the time, so does that make it seem like it's ok to just keep hurting me? I really don't know. Maybe it's time I step back and reassess. I've been doing that with most things lately, so I might as well add this one to the list.
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Elsewhere
I'm a daydreamer. I always have been. I can sit in silence for hours at a time and get lost in my thoughts and imagination. I think about things I want to happen, things I wish would happen. I play out different scenarios to try and figure the outcome before I take any action. Anything can happen in my head. Anything is possible. But then I'm taken back to reality and everything shifts from what I think and what I want to what everyone else expects and demands of me.
I've always considered myself to be a pretty independent person. I've chased independence actually. When it's come to big decisions though, I don't typically make them myself. I rely on the people close to me to help me make decisions I should make on my own. It's like I feel like I'm going to screw up if I don't have help from other people with stuff like that. Maybe that's because if I have help from other people, I can blame it on someone else if I fail. It's easier to lay blame on other people than yourself.
I talk about how much I want to be on my own and I want to be living life the way I want to, but it scares me. Being on my own scares the hell out of me, but I am getting so restless these days that I have to do something. So what's my next step? I'm most likely transferring schools and adding another major onto my plate. I have lived in the same place for 12 (almost 13) years and I haven't had an opportunity to be on my own and be away from my parents. Obviously it's scary because I'd be on my own, but it's something I have to do. For me. I need an opportunity to be on my own and live the way I want to. All I ask of anyone is to understand and let me do this for myself.
"Oh the quiet child awaits the day when she can break free
The mold that clings like desperation
Mother can’t you see I’ve got
To live my life the way I feel is right for me
Might not be right for you but it’s right for me...
I believe..."
I've always considered myself to be a pretty independent person. I've chased independence actually. When it's come to big decisions though, I don't typically make them myself. I rely on the people close to me to help me make decisions I should make on my own. It's like I feel like I'm going to screw up if I don't have help from other people with stuff like that. Maybe that's because if I have help from other people, I can blame it on someone else if I fail. It's easier to lay blame on other people than yourself.
I talk about how much I want to be on my own and I want to be living life the way I want to, but it scares me. Being on my own scares the hell out of me, but I am getting so restless these days that I have to do something. So what's my next step? I'm most likely transferring schools and adding another major onto my plate. I have lived in the same place for 12 (almost 13) years and I haven't had an opportunity to be on my own and be away from my parents. Obviously it's scary because I'd be on my own, but it's something I have to do. For me. I need an opportunity to be on my own and live the way I want to. All I ask of anyone is to understand and let me do this for myself.
"Oh the quiet child awaits the day when she can break free
The mold that clings like desperation
Mother can’t you see I’ve got
To live my life the way I feel is right for me
Might not be right for you but it’s right for me...
I believe..."
Friday, May 28, 2010
Do It Again
The last two days have been about moving.
Moving up.
My sophomore year officially ended yesterday, making me a junior. Crazy. I now am half way through college. Two more years and I'm graduating. I can only imagine how I am going to feel this time next year when I'm finishing junior year.
Moving out.
Today I moved the rest of the stuff from my dorm room to my parents' house, where I will be staying for the summer. Not excited really. It was very bittersweet. I'm glad the year is over, but I'm at that point where I don't want to be moving back home. I want to keep my freedom and not have to answer to anyone and just live my life the way I want to. Unfortunately, that is not something I can expect when I'm home. It's frustrating. Extremely frustrating.
Moving on.
This is the one "moving" I really wanted to write about. For the last two weeks, I've been trying to figure out certain aspects of my life. I've come to the realization that some things would be so much easier if I were one way or the other. If I acted or thought a certain way. I keep trying to be someone that I think people want me to be, which is exhausting. I need to make decisions for myself, do what I want to do, and not worry about how other people are seeing me. It's my life and I need to take back control of it.
I'm not entirely sure what all "moving on" entails, but I know that I need to become stronger. I need to be more comfortable with who I am and not try to hide anything about me just because I think someone might not like it. A lot of this has come from me thinking about the past. I've kind of been stuck in it lately and missing people and how things used to be. Living in the past only makes you wonder "what if?" The past is the past, you can't do anything to change it now. All you can do is move on and hope that you make the right decisions in the future.
Moving up.
My sophomore year officially ended yesterday, making me a junior. Crazy. I now am half way through college. Two more years and I'm graduating. I can only imagine how I am going to feel this time next year when I'm finishing junior year.
Moving out.
Today I moved the rest of the stuff from my dorm room to my parents' house, where I will be staying for the summer. Not excited really. It was very bittersweet. I'm glad the year is over, but I'm at that point where I don't want to be moving back home. I want to keep my freedom and not have to answer to anyone and just live my life the way I want to. Unfortunately, that is not something I can expect when I'm home. It's frustrating. Extremely frustrating.
Moving on.
This is the one "moving" I really wanted to write about. For the last two weeks, I've been trying to figure out certain aspects of my life. I've come to the realization that some things would be so much easier if I were one way or the other. If I acted or thought a certain way. I keep trying to be someone that I think people want me to be, which is exhausting. I need to make decisions for myself, do what I want to do, and not worry about how other people are seeing me. It's my life and I need to take back control of it.
I'm not entirely sure what all "moving on" entails, but I know that I need to become stronger. I need to be more comfortable with who I am and not try to hide anything about me just because I think someone might not like it. A lot of this has come from me thinking about the past. I've kind of been stuck in it lately and missing people and how things used to be. Living in the past only makes you wonder "what if?" The past is the past, you can't do anything to change it now. All you can do is move on and hope that you make the right decisions in the future.
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Dream
I'm hoping that at this point you all are starting to pick up on the fact that all of my titles of my blogs are song titles (with the exception of the first one, which was an artist's name). Most of those songs will give more insight into what's going on in my head than what I write. Today's inspiration: Dream by Priscilla Ahn.
For the last week or so, I've been feeling a little lost. I'm questioning every part of my life and all the big decisions I've made for myself so far. Maybe I'm just getting restless, which tends to happen when I feel like I could be doing something better with my life than going through 4-6 more years of school. I keep talking about all these "dreams" I have, i.e. music, but I'm just not sure if at the end of the day that is my true dream. It is definitely the one thing that consumes all of me and fulfills the voids, but when I stop playing or listening and just have the silence, everything is exactly the same as it was before the noise began.
"A dream is something that fills up the emptiness inside. The one thing that you know if it came true would make all the hurt go away." -Glee
Yes, I just outed myself as a gleek, but this line from last night's episode struck me hard. I have dreams of playing my trumpet for a living because it's what I love to do. If I didn't, I would be wasting my time right now, but I can't say honestly that ALL the hurt would go away if it came true. It would come with its own set of issues and problems I'd have to figure out. So now I'm trying to figure out what my true dream is, not just my goals. They are very different.
For the last week or so, I've been feeling a little lost. I'm questioning every part of my life and all the big decisions I've made for myself so far. Maybe I'm just getting restless, which tends to happen when I feel like I could be doing something better with my life than going through 4-6 more years of school. I keep talking about all these "dreams" I have, i.e. music, but I'm just not sure if at the end of the day that is my true dream. It is definitely the one thing that consumes all of me and fulfills the voids, but when I stop playing or listening and just have the silence, everything is exactly the same as it was before the noise began.
"A dream is something that fills up the emptiness inside. The one thing that you know if it came true would make all the hurt go away." -Glee
Yes, I just outed myself as a gleek, but this line from last night's episode struck me hard. I have dreams of playing my trumpet for a living because it's what I love to do. If I didn't, I would be wasting my time right now, but I can't say honestly that ALL the hurt would go away if it came true. It would come with its own set of issues and problems I'd have to figure out. So now I'm trying to figure out what my true dream is, not just my goals. They are very different.
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Shades of Grey
I was listening to Billy Joel's "Shades of Grey," and I really couldn't help thinking how true all of the lyrics really are, especially pertaining to my life right now.
Some things were perfectly clear, seen with the vision of youth
No doubts and nothing to fear, I claimed the corner on truth
These days it's harder to say I know what I'm fighting for
My faith is falling away
I'm not that sure anymore
Shades of grey wherever I go
The more I find out the less that I know
Black and white is how it should be
But shades of grey are the colors I see
It's pretty self-explanatory.
Saturday, May 1, 2010
Missing You
I have a history of being someone who closes herself off and refuses to be vulnerable to anyone. The last person I let in completely was my best friend, and that was two years ago. In four months, he's going to college. While I know he's only going to be a six hour drive away, I still am starting to go through a minor freak out about it. He's being really sweet and trying to reassure me that nothing is going to change and in two years we'll be back in the same place. A lot can change in two years. A lot. It's not that I don't trust him, but there's no way a person can promise that things are going to stay the same. You just can't expect something like that.
Right now, it feels like I'm living with a ticking time bomb. Like in four months and twenty-three days, I lose my best friend. It's not what is really going to happen...I hope, but it definitely feels like it sometimes, and I'm a person who can't change the way they think about something when it's already gotten in my head a certain way. It's not fair to him, but I miss him already.
Right now, it feels like I'm living with a ticking time bomb. Like in four months and twenty-three days, I lose my best friend. It's not what is really going to happen...I hope, but it definitely feels like it sometimes, and I'm a person who can't change the way they think about something when it's already gotten in my head a certain way. It's not fair to him, but I miss him already.
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Peter Bradley Adams
I decided that I should start off my first blog in a semi-non-cliche way. My first instinct was to write about who I am, what I like to do, but who wants to read that? I wouldn't. Plus, I'm assuming that most people who will be reading this already know those boring details about me. So instead, I thought I'd write about the one thing that keeps me mostly sane: music.
Today, I went on a music buying frenzy. In the last week, I was searching through my iPod trying to find something to listen to, but finding that I didn't want to listen to anything that was on there. I was just bored with all of it. I fixed that this afternoon. I'm pretty sure that anyone who was browsing through my iPod would be a little confused about my music tastes because they are so vast. I tend to like almost every genre, with the exception of screamo. Other than that, I just look for music that makes me smile. Sounds lame, but it's the best way to know if you have really found a good song/artist. I happened to be searching through the singer/songwriter category of the itunes store and stumbled upon my new obsession: Peter Bradley Adams.
The two songs I am most drawn to are The Longer I Run and Los Angeles. I heard The Longer I Run first. I was instantly smiling. The combination of vocals, piano, and guitar completely captivated me.
If I wander till I die, may I know whose hand I'm in.
If my home I'll never find
And let me live again.
The longer I run, then the less that I find selling my soul for a nickel and dime breakin my heart to keep singing these rhymes and losing again.
Those are the lyrics for the bridge and chorus of The Longer I Run. Now try and tell me they aren't amazing. You probably would need to hear it to get the complete effect, but I'm going to leave that one up to you.
Oh Los Angeles we leave you now
At the setting of your skies
As we leave the comfort of your ground
With your angels we will fly
Well you carried us in broken dreams
Like a mother does her sons
We were scattered 'cross your dirty streets
We were dying one by one
And you held us in your city lights
When our eyes had lost the stars
Find More lyrics at www.sweetslyrics.com
And we made our peace with lonely nights
And you healed our broken hearts
Well they say the Big One's gonna come
And you will fall into the sea
We will know that then your work is done
And your angels will go free
I felt the need to put all of the lyrics to Los Angeles because of how ingenious they are. Now just imagine Peter's voice with a piano playing as the lead instrument with light guitar providing the rhythm in the background. This one moved me. Immensely.
These types of songs make me continue to believe that music reaches right down into people's souls. Whether it be classical, country, R&B, rap, pop, musical theater, or whatever else you are drawn to, music is the ultimate escape.
Today, I went on a music buying frenzy. In the last week, I was searching through my iPod trying to find something to listen to, but finding that I didn't want to listen to anything that was on there. I was just bored with all of it. I fixed that this afternoon. I'm pretty sure that anyone who was browsing through my iPod would be a little confused about my music tastes because they are so vast. I tend to like almost every genre, with the exception of screamo. Other than that, I just look for music that makes me smile. Sounds lame, but it's the best way to know if you have really found a good song/artist. I happened to be searching through the singer/songwriter category of the itunes store and stumbled upon my new obsession: Peter Bradley Adams.
The two songs I am most drawn to are The Longer I Run and Los Angeles. I heard The Longer I Run first. I was instantly smiling. The combination of vocals, piano, and guitar completely captivated me.
If I wander till I die, may I know whose hand I'm in.
If my home I'll never find
And let me live again.
The longer I run, then the less that I find selling my soul for a nickel and dime breakin my heart to keep singing these rhymes and losing again.
Those are the lyrics for the bridge and chorus of The Longer I Run. Now try and tell me they aren't amazing. You probably would need to hear it to get the complete effect, but I'm going to leave that one up to you.
Oh Los Angeles we leave you now
At the setting of your skies
As we leave the comfort of your ground
With your angels we will fly
Well you carried us in broken dreams
Like a mother does her sons
We were scattered 'cross your dirty streets
We were dying one by one
And you held us in your city lights
When our eyes had lost the stars
Find More lyrics at www.sweetslyrics.com
And we made our peace with lonely nights
And you healed our broken hearts
Well they say the Big One's gonna come
And you will fall into the sea
We will know that then your work is done
And your angels will go free
I felt the need to put all of the lyrics to Los Angeles because of how ingenious they are. Now just imagine Peter's voice with a piano playing as the lead instrument with light guitar providing the rhythm in the background. This one moved me. Immensely.
These types of songs make me continue to believe that music reaches right down into people's souls. Whether it be classical, country, R&B, rap, pop, musical theater, or whatever else you are drawn to, music is the ultimate escape.
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